Hi, Red-Dragon. I know that sometimes it's hard to know what to do when there really is no one to talk to or ask. I really hope that you've come to the right place.
One of the hardest things that I find about trying to get to sleep is not being able to turn my mind off at night.
There are a few things that you can try (outside of medication):
~The scent of lavender is EXCELLENT for inducing sleepiness. If you can find a lavender-scented candle, potpourri or air freshener and spread the scent around the room just before bedtime, this could help drastically.
~Eating red kidney beans a good hour or two before bedtime can help you to rest.
~Drink a warm cup of milk about fifteen minutes before bedtime.
~Stay away from tea, coffee and soft drinks at least an hour before you turn in.
~Take a warm bath or shower and then get straight into bed. Sometimes, just changing your bed sheets can give you a comforting feeling that often helps to relax you into sleep.
~Try tensing the muscles in one body part at a time and then slowly relaxing them. Do that for your entire body until you start to feel sleepy.
These are only a few suggestions that have actually worked for me in the past! I'm sure others have some more, but for now...I hope at least one helps you!