I really need to vent at the moment.
As some of you may know, my partner smokes weed. He dosnt do it all the time, he maybe spends £40 a month on it.
It dosnt affect his work, his standing as a parent, or his standing as a partner. He isnt addicted, he just likes to unwind with a joint now and then.
The problem is my mother in law. She hates him smoking it, the way she sees it it is as bad as any class A drug. I am constntly stuck in the middle of it.
She came home last night, and flipped. Shouting and screaming (bearing in mind he and my daughter were both in bed) about him and smoking it. She is on the verge of kicking him out - then again, I'm in the middle. If he goes, I go, and so does Paige.
I can see both sides of the argument. She dosnt understand it, she has never smoked it. To her, he is a druggie, and thats that.
I have no problem with him smoking it. As long as he still works, and takes care of me and my daughter, I dont care.
I can't talk to her about it, cos she is not open to any view but hers. I am fed up of getting caught in the middle, and I nearly lost my rag with her last night.
It is the common, 'I don't understand it, so its bad'.
grrrrrrrrrrr.
What would you do??
Much Love and Hugs
Mel
xxx